I have been way too long in between posting here, not because I am not learning but because I don't find/make the time. But reacently I am learning about keeping my mouth shut. notice I said "about" not "to keep my mouth shut" although that is happening more and more. I am not sure if it is age or experience or both. but I feel latly less and less like sharing my oppinions and feeling with people outside of a small select group of friends. not because I feel I can't but because I feel less desire and kind of like why bother? I use to have this need to be heard, to talk and get all my feelings out, and it gets less and less. I like the quiet more and more. some times I think its more important and or effective to shut up then to stand up.