When I was growing up we had a weekly tradition that we called "Closure". It would take place on sunday and sort of finish off the week. What is closure? well, all 11 of us (a blended family) would gather in the living room after dinner on sunday. One by one each person was encuraged to share something they learned either that day in church, sometime over the last week, or even just their lifetime. Only if you wanted to. Once you were done, sharing would be passed to the next person. This was not a time to correct, debate, or lecture. It was simply a time to share what you had learned. Some times they were very brief, even one word. Partly because with that many teenagers you should know at least a few want to hurry up and get on with it, and also because thats just how some did it. Others would share longer thoughts.




I would like this to be a place where Closure can take place. Please share Something you have learned. If you are not an auther on the blog, but wish to share, just post what you have learned as a comment on my last post.

-Tali

Friday, April 30, 2010

My thoughts of the past two weeks.

I have had alot rolling around in my head and heart for the past couple of weeks. On the 15th I went to St. Louis for a army thing. I spent most of my free time with my friend. One night we were having a discussion about our different beliefs. She is Wiccian, they worship nature and they have many goddesses. They are a very down to earth religion. We hit of few topics that we feel very differently on. I think that we were able to discuss them fairly. But while we were talking her Husband texed her with a scripture that he had pulled out of the Book of Mormon. I didn't have a ready answer because I didn't know the context. I was able to explain it to her after a little research and talking to Ben. Honestly I think she got sick of me trying to explain myself. I was just trying to figure it out for myself. But that whole experience made me think. Then on Sunday in YW we had a lesson about being prepared so we can answer peoples questions. I realized that I had been neglecting my personal scripture study and prayers. I didn't have the spirit, I didn't know what I was talking about. I felt like I had missed so many recent experiences just by not being prepared to learn or grow.

6 comments:

Phannie said...

Maybe you were not prepared, but maybe the Spirit decided for you that she was not prepared. Sometimes, no matter how much study and preparation you put into knowing the gospel, you just wont be able to come up with the answers.

I learned on the Mission that sometimes they aren't ready. And if they aren't ready, no matter how much I want to help them understand, the Spirit will wait patiently until they are. The Spirit just knows better than we do.

Don't get too discouraged. It might not have been completely you.

Don Fallick said...

You might try discussing it with your eldest sister. She was raised in the church, but converted to Wiccan in her teens.

Jj Starwalker said...

Just an FYI... not all who follow a "Pagan" path are Wiccan. It can be thought of as a "denomination" and is one of many. Not everyone even has a name for their earth-centered path. Not all recognize both God and Goddess forms. Not all even accept the label "Pagan"; some follow Northern Tradition paths and prefer the term "Heathen."

This message is brought to you in the spirit of knowledge and understanding.

king bacon2 said...

Thanks Jj. My friend had made that distinction to me. She said that all Wiccians don't even follow the same stuff. They kinda do what feels right for them. Thanks for your explanation though.

MMStarshine said...

Um. I'm going to assume you mean me dad. I'm not wiccan, and I never was, and I don't think it's something you "convert" too.

Also, Mary can feel free to ask about my spiritual beliefs but I probably will decline to discuss them. I don't believe in discussing my spirituality. It is deeply, DEEPLY personal, and discussing it feels obscene.

(tali, sorry to be all arguee in your thing, but this hit a nerve with me)

king bacon2 said...

Katey, I wouldn't want to make you feel weird. The post was about a conversation that me and my friend had who just happend to be wiccan, and my thoughts from it. I don't want to go into her religion or anyones elses I just thought that I would share what was in my head.