When I was growing up we had a weekly tradition that we called "Closure". It would take place on sunday and sort of finish off the week. What is closure? well, all 11 of us (a blended family) would gather in the living room after dinner on sunday. One by one each person was encuraged to share something they learned either that day in church, sometime over the last week, or even just their lifetime. Only if you wanted to. Once you were done, sharing would be passed to the next person. This was not a time to correct, debate, or lecture. It was simply a time to share what you had learned. Some times they were very brief, even one word. Partly because with that many teenagers you should know at least a few want to hurry up and get on with it, and also because thats just how some did it. Others would share longer thoughts.




I would like this to be a place where Closure can take place. Please share Something you have learned. If you are not an auther on the blog, but wish to share, just post what you have learned as a comment on my last post.

-Tali

Sunday, April 4, 2010

I will go first....

I have been thinking a lot about the responsibility of parenthood. This weekend was General confrence, and so many of the speakers chose topics associated with parenting. I felt how much the Lord really cares for His little ones. The responsibility is so great because they are not just mine. But they are His.
For now if you would like to share just leave it as a comment, I am still working out the details of how to make this work best. I would like to hear from everyone.

10 comments:

Jj Starwalker said...

Open doors and open hearts go together, but insight and wisdom must accompany the opening.

Barbara said...

Tali, we have to be listed as authors in the blog set up or we cannot post here except as comments. Also, please sent it so we don't have to write in the word to make a comment. If you don't know how, one of us could work with you to show you how.

Don Fallick said...

I've been struggling with my Spanish, especially as we are Service Missionaries in a Spanish ward. Last week I took one of the ward members to the dentist, so I could translate for him, as he is a recent immigrant without much English. I learned my Spanish comprehension is better than I thought. If you can understand someone when the dentist's hands are in their mouth, you can understand them ANYTIME!

MMStarshine said...

Tali, this is a brilliant idea.

Dose it have to be one thing?

I suppose mine would be "to everything there is a season" and more importantly, *I* don't get to control the seasons. either the actual season, or where other people are on their path. It's really frustrating. Rather than rush people along at my pace, I'm trying to experiment with slowing down to match theirs.

Brad's gaggle of girls said...

Tali, what a great idea! So will this just be comments from here on out? Brilliant!
What I learned this last week is LOVE. Not just plain old ordinary love, but true love of everyone. Not that it is a new concept for me or anything, but the talk that President Dieter F. Uchtdorf gave about the "canned food converts" was so powerful.

king bacon2 said...

I learned that as a Parent I need to take the time, really take the time with Josh. I can tell when I don't he is more distruptive and sad. When I do take the time he is happier and plays better. Thank you for this. I love you sis!

Halley Amor said...

I think I have learned more about the importance of family and working together. I think each week you should post what you learned Tali and then everyone else can post a comment for that week of what they learned. Like as if you are starting it each week. Very good idea by the way.

Tali said...

not sure why it is showing 7 comments on the main page and then you get to here and only three appear. if any knows please let me know. Did four people delete theirs? I hope not.

Catherine said...

Life will go on. No matter how bad it seems right now or whether I think it can get worse or better, it just continues. One day at a time and without fail. I am appreciating how life progresses without any effort from me and that I only need to keep up on my end to move along with it.

Amelia said...

What I learned recently is that, call it karma or call it blessings, if you put good stuff out there, you will, in general, get good stuff back. Although it might not be in the anticipated, or hoped for way. Having sunshine in your soul is contagious.